Most of us have
been through situations that are difficult at best. Sometimes our experiences
are downright traumatic.
When in the middle
of a difficult time we may believe we are the only one going through a tough time
and forget that difficulty is a part of the human experience.
It could be the loss
of a job, an unexpected separation of a relationship we thought would last
forever, major illness or death.
Unfortunately, when
we are put in the middle of difficult experiences we may do and say things we
really don’t mean. In the moment we may feel justified in our anger, fear and
harsh words.
Yet, if we step
back and acknowledge others may also be going through tough times, even in our
darkest hour we can find light.
The fact is, we
were not given the manual of life that explains how to deal with these situations
when they hit.
Yet, it is through
the love and care of others we are often able to find comfort in even the most
difficult situations.
There will be occasions
when life changes so quickly we are required to drop everything and be with the
experience. Our world turns upside down.
We may find our
life is changed forever in ways we never imagined. We may also discover we are
being called to put our own emotions aside in order to be there for another who
is also going through a tough time.
The fact is, love
can transform even the toughest situations from one of frustration, uncertainty
and fear into one in which we are guided as to what we are being called to be.
In virtually every religion and spiritual belief the answer to the most
difficult experiences is love. When we don’t feel we are in a loving space the
answer is closer than we may realize. The answer is prayer.
It is through prayer we are able to gain comfort, serenity, clarity and may
even get a sense of our calling.
In this calling
there are things we may asked to do that are foreign and uncomfortable. We may try to resist and hold back. As has
been said, “That which we resist, will persist.”
When your world is
turned upside down step back, sit quietly, and pray for right actions. Sit with
the answers and know you are being guided.
Along with prayer it is good to know that the experience you are in, IS for your best good. Whether to build character or whatever the reason is, It is your gift.
Posted by: Law of Attraction Expert | October 16, 2009 at 08:50 PM